She said its complex subject and let’s write on something
else but till then it was too late, the thought had already begun, tickling,
finding, questioning and intriguing.
Based on my interactions with people over last few years
since I have come to Mumbai , I believe the finding is true” The utmost need of the mankind is to be loved”……I am asking few questions
to you
1.
Have you ever felt that you have all the amenities,
comforts but still something is missing at times? That is love.
2.
Have you missed that special friend in the
parties you were part of? That is love.
3.
Do you often look for someone who really
love/like you unconditionally, hear you out completely?
4.
When you look back what is that one or two things that you miss about
yourself?
It happens with everybody in different times, we become part
of system in such a way that we forget ourselves, we forget that need of pampering ourselves that we used to do
earlier. We stop talking to ourselves
and we search for others to fill the gap.
Half of the things we
don’t understand, half f the things we don’t communicate.
I often admit that I generally don’t express my love for
others, I historically assumed that people will come to know how much I care, love
them but how, will they get any a dream?
I started realizing this and working on expressing, expressing to those special
ones!
I remember once Steve jobs said “Stop living other’s life, which means that living life due to other people’
reactions” and since then I have changed.
We, People run away from some facts and points
We need people around us and vice versa, if you have tried to distance
yourself from them, it is your choice, question is identifying right set of
people should be around you .
Do you get affected by what people think of you/ say about you often? Pls
don’t, Practice Neutralism more which is art of getting less affecting by
negative emotions and growing inside out.
List down activities you used to
do before and liked them? Why have you stopped doing them? No responsibilities is
not the reason, it can only cut down the frequency not entirely
Keep high expectations only from yourself, how much you can deliver to
yourself? Keep expectations from others at minimum level, and that level only
you can define.
Always contribute in other’s work if asked.
Love people unconditionally ( choose which ones carefully) and they
will love you back sooner or later.
In problem, discuss it with close ones, don’t hold it to you, I never
used to discuss with loved ones, opening up a bit.
Just think bloody life is so limited, enjoy the uncertainty, I am
learning to do that, just think if you will live till 60 ( u don’t know till
when u will live) subtract ur current age, se how many years left , lot many
things to do, lot much to explore than to given attention to people who never matter
to you.
Open up, open up, open up
You will never be able to keep the entire world happy, so just keep yourself
happy.
I have always believed
·
There is
lot of love around us, its we who need
to find it.
·
Its your
life, all people who have achieved something in life had same no of hours in a
day, may be more responsibities/pains than we have.
·
Choose
the right people around you & they will sail you through.
·
No, you
will not get everything, the world is not created for you alone, so prioritize.
·
Be happy,
laugh out loud, meet people, share, be a catalyst for your and people’s growth.
Lets make place around us more beautiful
Vikas sachdeva
